Don’tallow other peoples opinions and judgments to control the direction of yourlife.
不要让别人的意见和判断来左右你的人生方向。
Theneed to fit in and feel wanted can cause you to travel down paths youdon’t want to travel.
渴望融入群体，渴望被需要，会把你引入你并不想要的人生旅程。
People-pleasingis a curse that should be avoided at all costs.
取悦他人是一个诅咒，我们无论如何都要避免。
Beforeyou do anything ask yourself, am i doing this because I want to do it? Orbecause of my fear of judgement from others if I don’t.
在你做任何事情前，问问自己，我这样做是因为我想要去做吗？还是因为惧怕如果我不去做，别人会对我说三道四呢？
Youwere born unique for a reason, you wereborn to stand out to be appreciated and loved for who you are, don’t dimyour light so you fit into the dull background of other people’s lives.
你生来就是独一无二的，你生来就要脱颖而出，从而让别人去欣赏和喜欢真实的你。不要羞于展现自己，如果这样，你就只能活在别人生活的阴影里。
Shinebright as you are. Those who really care for you will see that light and shinewith you.
展露你的锋芒吧！那些真正关心你的人会看到你的闪光点。
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【重点词汇&表达】
1.The needto fit in and feel wanted
（fit in：相处融洽； feel wanted：感觉被需求）
2.People-pleasing isa curse
（people-pleasing：取悦他人； curse：[kɜːs] n.诅咒）
3.beavoided at all costs
（at all costs：不惜任何代价）
4.you wereborn to stand out
（stand out：突出，显眼）
5.don’t dimyour light so you fit into the dull background ofother people’s lives.
（dim your light：暗淡你的光芒；fit into：融入；dull：[dʌl] a.呆滞的，阴暗的）
【典型连读】
1.The needto fit in and feel wanted
2.traveldown paths you don’t want to travel
3.standout to be appreciated and loved
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